Saturday, January 1, 2011

You can shed tears that he is gone or you can smile because he has lived
You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back or you can open your eyes and see all he's left
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him or you can be full of the love you shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
You can remember him and only that he's gone or you can cherish his memory and let it live on

David Harkins
Queen Mother Funeral Poem
(genderized)

On December 17, 2010 at 10:14 pm, Phil died from pancreatic cancer. His final hours were peaceful and love-filled as family members remained at his side. 

From the beginning in late July he was determined to keep this a private matter, protecting all from the inevitable progression and pain of his condition. Phil wanted to be remembered for the good times with you all, and there were many with many.

You are invited to join Phil's family in a memorial and celebration of his life on January 15, 2011 from 1 to 4 pm at the beautiful Hakone Gardens in Saratoga, California.  A memorial bike run is planned prior to the celebration of life, weather permitting, from Belmont to Hakone.

Phil was buried in a private ceremony at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Los Altos, CA

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